Sunday, 11 May 2014

Neha di.....u r more like mother thn sister. Happy mothers day

Itz seems dat sum part of me z leaving.....sum part which z very very essential for my survival. N dat part z u my swthrt....Neha di.

As it feel like hell to say goodbye......but thn to..... i will miss u.
Today i m feeling dat u r really leaving forever..... how i m gonna live in dat house ,whr we had grown up 2gethr.....vid so many fights,festivals, ......our school.....our room.....frm now onwards u will be sum1 else roomptnr..... I Will Miss U yaar.

Thursday, 1 May 2014

Brahmacharya, the yoga of celibacy, is a traditional practice in Saivite Hinduism.

It allows
the adolescent or young adult to use his vital
energies to prepare for a rewarding life, to
develop his mind and talents for his chosen
vocation. The first of the four stages, or
ashramas, of life is actually called the
brahmacharya ashrama. Love, including sex, is
one of the legitimate four goals of life, according
to our religion. Sex is not bad. Its place, however,
is properly within the confines of a sanctified
marriage. Nor are sex drives unnatural. The goal
of the brahmachari and brahmacharini is not to
become fearful of sex, but to understand sex and
the sexual impulses in a balanced way. During the
time of brahmacharya, the goal is to control the
sex urges and transmute those vital energies into
the brain to gain a great mental and spiritual
strength. Yes, this vital life force must be
focused on studies and spiritual pursuits.
Brahmacharya maintained until marriage, and
faithfulness thereafter, helps enable the devotee
to merit a good wife or husband, a happy, stable
marriage and secure, well-adjusted children.

The purpose of sexual union is to express and foster love's beautiful intimacy and to draw husband and wife together for procreation.

When a virgin man and woman marry and share physical intimacy with each other, their union is very strong and their marriage stable.
This is because their psychic nerve currents, or nadis,grow together and they form a one body and a one
mind.
Conversely, if the man or woman has had intercourse before the marriage, the emotional-
psychic closeness of the marriage will suffer, and this in proportion to the extent of promiscuity.

For a marriage to succeed, sexual intercourse must be preserved for husband and wife. Each
should grow to understand the other's needs and take care to neither deny intercourse to the
married partner nor make excessive demands.
A healthy, unrepressed attitude should be kept regarding sexual matters. Boys and girls must be
taught to value and protect their chastity as a sacred treasure, and to save the special gift of intimacy for their spouse.
They should be taught the importance of loyalty in marriage and to avoid even the thought of adultery. The Vedas intone,
"Sweet be the glances we exchange, our faces showing true concord. Enshrine me in your heart and let one spirit dwell with us."

"Aum NamahSivaya"

Gandharva vivaha or Love marriage was looked down since only the women's beauty was what captivated the man. Hinduism teaches that wife is someone who helps to fulfill the duties of the husband to his parents and society. It says that a wife should be chosen such that she will aid him in fulfilling his duties and not just after appearance.